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Dirty Talk: Gettin Wordy & Gettin Dirty

At every last moment, consent presents us with what may be one of the most exciting opportunities: the exciting pleasure you and your partners can discover and enjoy together. Consent gives you the opportunity to find not just your desire, but the depth of your desire. And on top of that (pun intended), to create…

Posted on September 20, 2011 by Ben Privot
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Feministing Consent

Intelligent. Funny. Bold. Or perhaps- Brave. Transformative. Youth-oriented. Well unfortunately I can’t find a three-word sequence that can adequately capture the success of Feminsiting. It’s no easy task; Feministing has been a cornerstone in politics, media, social change, and furthermore has unified them all together in an extraordinary way. Plus, like consent, they have been…

Posted on August 15, 2011 by Ben Privot
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The Best Kept Secret In Sex

Victoria’s Secret isn’t nearly as amazing as this secret Somewhere in this infinite universe I’m indebted to someone more than I can repay.   I forget who, but someone has given me an outlook that deeply shapes my life still until this very day. They said, “When you seek to pull the thread to answer one…

Posted on July 14, 2011 by Ben Privot
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Lisa Wade And Consensual Narratives

Everywhere we go, we’re constantly receiving narratives around sexuality, sexual communication, and consent – in movies, through music, on television, amongst friends, privately with our partners, and just about anywhere one can think of. Unfortunately, not every one of these narratives we receive on sexuality is positive or even valuable. Oftentimes we have to endure…

Posted on June 27, 2011 by Ben Privot
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