The Consensual Blog
text

Dirty Talk: Gettin Wordy & Gettin Dirty

At every last moment, consent presents us with what may be one of the most exciting opportunities: the exciting pleasure you and your partners can discover and enjoy together. Consent gives you the opportunity to find not just your desire, but the depth of your desire. And on top of that (pun intended), to create…

Posted on September 20, 2011 by Ben Privot
read more
text

Feministing Consent

Intelligent. Funny. Bold. Or perhaps- Brave. Transformative. Youth-oriented. Well unfortunately I can’t find a three-word sequence that can adequately capture the success of Feminsiting. It’s no easy task; Feministing has been a cornerstone in politics, media, social change, and furthermore has unified them all together in an extraordinary way. Plus, like consent, they have been…

Posted on August 15, 2011 by Ben Privot
read more
video

Hugo Schwyzer on Self-Esteem & Consent

Consent at its core seeks to maximize romantic harmony. Taking the good moments and making them great, great moments — amazing, and those amazing moments…just about transcendental.  This harmony requires the ability to demand and give respect. Furthermore, it entails we utilize something that just about everyone I’ve ever met, whether they’ve admitted or acknowledged…

Posted on July 19, 2011 by Ben Privot
read more
text

The Best Kept Secret In Sex

Victoria’s Secret isn’t nearly as amazing as this secret Somewhere in this infinite universe I’m indebted to someone more than I can repay.   I forget who, but someone has given me an outlook that deeply shapes my life still until this very day. They said, “When you seek to pull the thread to answer one…

Posted on July 14, 2011 by Ben Privot
read more
read more blog posts